Gene Shalit Apologizes For The Term “Sexual Predator”

In describing the behavior of “Jack” I used words (“sexual predator”) that I now discover have angered, agitated, and hurt many people. I did not intend to use a word that many in the gay community consider incendiary. . . . I certainly had no intention of casting aspersions on anyone in the gay community or on the community itself. I regret any emotional hurt that may have resulted from my review of ‘Brokeback Mountain.”

Today, The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation(GLAAD) said it received a statement from Gene Shalit, saying, “In describing the behavior of “Jack” I used words (“sexual predator”) that I now discover have angered, agitated, and hurt many people. I did not intend to use a word that many in the gay community consider incendiary. . . . I certainly had no intention of casting aspersions on anyone in the gay community or on the community itself. I regret any emotional hurt that may have resulted from my review of ‘Brokeback Mountain.’ ” Bravo to Mr. Shalit… we retract our accusation that he is a loser!

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Kudos: GLAAD

First Week On The Diet

Current Weight: 263 Weight Loss: 2

I started gung ho on the diet and exercise early in the week. I had an ingrown toenail so that curbed my treadmill for the rest of the week. I still managed to overeat on most days so I am lucky that I lost anything. My daily goals are to eat 5 servings of fruits and veggies a day, burn at least 300 calories during exercise a day, and write everything I eat down. I am working on my portion sizes, but find it very difficult. It is also very hard not to munch at night! My goal weight loss for this week will be 3 lbs.

First Loser Of 2006… Gene Shalit

geneshalit In his review of Brokeback Mountain, Gene Shalit claims,”Jack, who strikes me as a sexual predator, tracks Ennis down and coaxes him into sporadic trysts.” What? Did he see this movie? It’s a tragic love story, stupid.

I am so sick of people trying to demonize homosexual love. Gay People are called child molester’s, sexual deviants, and sexual predators, all the time. When will the straight community get it through their heads… homosexuality is much more than a sex act! It is not a “behavior”, it is a whole personality trait! Unless you have the attention span of a grape nut, anyone who sees Brokeback Mountain will understand that it is the love that Jack and Ennis have for one another that keeps them getting together… and not just sex. Was Romeo and Julliet a story about sexual predators?

If Gene Shalit wants to reduce Brokeback Mountain to a story only about a sexual predator… again, I ask, did he see this movie? To be blunt, it is the Ennis character that “tops” the Jack character. If Ennis wasn’t into Jack (pun intended), I seriously doubt that he would be “up” to the challenge! Which leads me to another issue I would like to set straight for the “straight” community. Mom… don’t read this. Homosexuality is not about anal sex! Gay people can use a wide variety of ways to pleasure their partners…just as straight people. There are many gay people, lesbians included, that never get near the “back door”. Reducing one’s sexual orientation or relationship to a list of behaviors is irresposible and shows a total lack of respect for one’s fellow man and woman. When two people fall in love, sex is just the icing on the cake.

Kudos: NBC

Which Desperate Housewife Are You?

I just took a quiz to find out which Desperate Housewife I am. I figured I would probably be a Susan, and sure enough I am. If I were straight, the quiz says I should be married to Lynette… I can see that too, but if I were single I would want Carlos!! Carlos is hot!! I really enjoy this show. I loved Sex and the City and this has become my replacement since that ended.

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Susan…My Alter Ego?
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Lynette…my Wife?
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Carlos…Hot!

Kudos: ABC

A New Year for Weight Loss

The New Year is here and I am really gonna lose weight in the next 12 months! I figure if I write it here, I might be more successful. I used my old, dusty treadmill yesterday and today. I am also writing down everything I am eating. My start weight is 265 and my goal is 180… a total of 85lbs to lose! I plan to exercise everyday and eat at least 5 servings of fruits and vegetables. I hope that this is the last time I have to do this. I have lost this weight at least 3 time now! I will create a separate catagory or those of you who would like to follow my weight loss.